The
main reason she does not call you back probably
because you are doing something that doesn't agree
with her. You may be coming at the whole
relationship from the traditional or according
behavior, and this may be leading her to just drop
you as soon a she can.
She has other men on hand who are ready to do
many things for her and all she has to do is ask
them. They will drive her around, fill her stomach,
even by her things and all they get in return is a
kiss on the cheek or a hug.
And all of that is if she wants to keep you
around as one of her boy girlfriends. You will be
categorized just like all of her other friends if
you are even so lucky. All of this is stemming from
the wrong frame of relationship in the first place.
It does not mean that you are the problem, you
just have to meet her more on her terms and what she
expects of a relationship. When you start courting
her, she knows that she has the power anyways
especially because of the actions you do to buy her
attention.
This is really boring to her and she will often
just not return your calls even if you are a nice
guy with a lot to offer; purely because of the
relationship approach that you took.
Dating dynamics have changed in our modern
society. Being really traditional and expecting a
woman to be interested in you when you take this
approach which used to work ( but remember times
have changed), is full of all kinds of expectations
and is often too much pressure for her to handle
even if you are a great catch. This is really why
millions of American women are dumping great guys
every day all over.
On the other hand, if you are starting the frame
of the relationship on a different matter which may
be more closer towards an accelerated mating process
of attraction, there will be a lot less pressure
when done correctly because the entire dynamics are
naturally based and without heavy consequence.
When you take a woman out on a date she all of a
sudden now senses she is obligated to do something
in return because you have paid for her attention.
Usually this is just letting you kiss her on the
hand or a hug, and because she does not want to deal
with all of the pressure of you following her around
after she might decide to let you sleep with her.
As in the movie Swingers, when Mikey gets a
girl's number at the bar and then calls her
immediately when he gets home, he is just oozing
interest and a high level of expectation. This is a
lot of pressure especially for a beautiful woman
because she does not know if or when she will be
able to get rid of you if she takes things further
with you. This is the explanation of why most women
will call you back.
They're all also other reasons why she finally
just isn't interested in you any more due to her
social persona or whatever. If you are in a 50-50
relationship she may resent that you have given her
most of the power; this is how two of my American
x-girlfriends have broken up with me; I led them
just go ahead and have the power in the relationship
with me just kind of going along with things.
And this led to the relationship's demise.
Usually sooner or later she will lose interest in
you if she can not be naturally attracted to you or
if the power shifts too much in her favor.
One of the main reason traditional relationships
stay together is because a man is being a man and a
woman is being a traditional woman. Because of the
essential role reversal that is now pervasive in our
society everything has gotten confused.
There is going to be drama in any type of
long-term relationship with an independent and
especially beautiful woman. The chance that she will
give up a lot of her freedom and newfound rights to
be more like her traditional counterpart throughout
the rest of the world, is very slim.
The inability for her to give up a lot of her
freedoms and play her more biological role of just
being a mother leads to nagging, the gene, griping
that many American married men will tell you about
(especially if they are divorced).
I do not want to give relationship advice for men
in 50-50 relationships with women, because I do not
deal with that kind of drama in my life. You will
find that if you can just be a man and living your
reality, you will attract women to you who will want
to stay around you and you will not have to question
why she is not calling you because you will be
calling you more often than you will be calling her.
This is really the way it is supposed to be. She
is the one who is supposed to be hanging by you and
that's what she wants to do despite what feminists
say. Just look at women who are around men; they
will often choose men who are not nice guys now and
they will be calling them.
If you can just be a natural or a man that
creates attraction and desire within women, you will
have them calling you a lot more often and you will
not be wondering why no one ever calls. Hey I've
gone through it in the past as well with American
women.
It is his energy of essentially giving her the
power and choice in the relationship which she
ultimately resents it will not call you back for; in
that sense some things have never changed. Women are
still women beneath their hard edged socially
developed exterior.
If you want to learn how to have women calling
you, then make sure you check out my ultimate
resource 'Mens Guide to Women'. If she can just be
around a man who is 100 comfortable around her
without letting her perceived socially acceptable
appearance get in the way, she will be magnetically
attracted to you.
There is a lot of leverage that is giving her
this power that is already natural anyways. It is up
to you to take advantage of this to give both you
and her what you are looking for. This is the
opposite of how Mikey reacted after he got back from
the club.
In fact in a movie you will notice that his
ex-girlfriend finally called him back when he
officially let her go by taking the other call from
his new girlfriend. This is not too far from the
truth of reality.
Somehow women just know (as in the opening
sequence of the movie). He was emotionally hanging
on to her for too long, giving her the power in the
relationship; this is not the biological order, he
was being a wussy.
