There are many things in our culture that grab us
and won't let go. Sometimes sex is one of them.
Perhaps that's the case for you or your
spouse/partner.
Sexual addiction plays a prominent role in the "I
Can't Say No" kind of extramarital affair I outline
in my E-book, "Break Free From the Affair."
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H Shap
These questions are intended to help you be more
aware of some behaviors that perhaps indicate that
sex has a hold on you. If you answer yes to three or
more questions it probably is wise to take a closer
look at the place of sex in your life.
1) Do I have sex at inappropriate times,
inappropriate places and/or with the wrong people?
2) Do I make promises to myself or rules for
myself concerning my sexual behavior that I find I
cannot follow?
3) Have I lost count of the number of sexual
partners I've had in the past 3 years?
4) Do I have sex regardless of the consequences
(e.g. the threat of being caught, the risk of
contracting herpes, gonorrhea, AIDS, etc.)?
5) Do I feel uncomfortable about my masturbation,
the fantasies I engage in, the props I use, and/or
the places in which I do it?
6) Do I feel jaded, exhausted, cynical? Am I on
the path to that?
7) Do I feel that my life is unmanageable because
of my sexual behavior?
8) Do I have sex as a way to deal with or escape
from life's problems? DoI feel entitled to sex? Do I
feel as though I have earned sex?
9) Do I have a serious relationship threatened or
destroyed because of outside sexual activity on my
part?
10) Do I feel that my sexual life affects my
spiritual life in a negative way?
For more information on sexual addiction and
infidelity, visit my site.
