I
read the other day that the majority of American's
regularly have sex in just a few positions. Well, if
that's true, its time to shake things up! This
article is on g spot positions. These are our
favorite ways of hitting the g-spot during sex.
If you like boring, normal sex, that lasts just
5-10 minutes, don't read this page. If you're
feeling more adventurous, and are ready to blow your
mind then please, proceed!
So, the first step in hitting your g spot during
sex is to know where it is! For a refresher course,
check out this page on the g spot location. You also
may want to try a finding the g spot exercise first.
From here on, we're going to assume that you (and
your partner) know where your g-spot is, and how to
best stimulate it to give you pleasure.
Now that that's all taken care of - lets focus on
g spot positions. The first step is to recognize
that the g spot, or g spot area, is small and not
always in the same place. So, throughout your sex
you'll both need to be communicating. What works,
what feels good, what doesn't, a little to the
right, a little to the left, etc.
In the beginning, as you explore different g spot
positions, its likely best if you agree not to have
orgasms. We've found this makes it easy to have a
sense of exploration and play.
And, without further delay, here are our three
favorite g spot positions. Enjoy!
Ride Em Cowboy (Woman on Top)
I have to say there's something so sexy about a
woman being on top, in charge of finding what feels
the best. Really, this position is ideal because it
allows the woman to control the depth, intensity,
and speed. It gives you the ability to play, and
explore, and notice how much more pleasure comes
from subtle differences.
As you are on top, experiment with what feel's
best to you. Move, shift, tell your partner what
feel's good, rock back and forth, take it deep, keep
it shallow, etc. This will likely work best if you
are already aroused and hot. (This is true with all
these g spot positions)
Now, as the guy in this position, you're not just
laying back passively (thought that is fine to do -
just not now!). What will help your partner most is
if you tilt your pelvis as much as possible. The
more you can do this, the better.
You'll also get a great workout! : )
Unfortunately, if you are anything like me,
you'll get super tired super quick. In the beginning
we used to use alot of pillows to try to angle my
hips. Lately, we've really been enjoying something
called the wedge, its a liberator shape. This small
shape puts your pelvis in the perfect tilted
position without you having to do any work.
I know it sounds crazy, but the small, subtle
positioning this enables, makes all the difference.
Doggy Style (Crouching, Man Coming from Behind)
This is one of our favorite g spot positions. Not
only do you have great g-spot access, but there?s
just something so primal andsexy about & ! from
behind.
Now, guys, in this position you can take it easy
and let her do all the work. In this case, ladies,
use your thighs to press back and find the depth,
thrust style, and position that works best for you.
However, guys, if you want to be more active, you
can easily adapt this position. Push your woman
down, and lay more on top of her (still coming in
from behind)
Now, for the best g spot stimulation, position
your legs outside of hers and put more of your
weight forward, so you are riding her from up
higher.
This puts your penis on more of a downward angle,
and helps you hit her g-spot more directly. You can
also experiment with having her legs more open, or
more closed to see what feels best.
We've also been using the liberator shape - the
wedge - in this position too. We found if we put
that underneath my girlfriend, it gives her hips a
particular tilt that totally amp things up.
Your Highness (Man Kneeling or Standing, Woman's
Legs on His Shoulders)
We love this sex position. With many g spot
positions you can't look each other in the eyes.
With this one, we recommend it. Also, when you want
to hit the g spot, having your legs high and wide is
the secret ingredient. Sometimes putting your feet
on your partner's shoulders can be the most
comfortable (its also just super sexy!)
Now, you can do this position in lots of ways.
You can do it off your sofa, a chair, or your coffee
table (we won't tell!). Or, you can modify it to
work off your bed by kneeling vs standing. The only
real key to this position is that your partner is
angled upward, with her legs spread wide or on your
shoulders. You can achieve this combination in lots
of different ways (be creative!)
Well, these are our three favorite g spot
positions, and I hope you try them out and enjoy!
