The concept of 'nice' keeps on changing from time to
time. It is really worth mentioning that nice guys
just like the sexy gals have more demand in
reality…still, there is no hard and fast rule
regarding this pre-conception. Making friendship or
to end-up-with sexual action with the person from
the opposite sex does not only depend upon the
physical beauty or good behavior, but also relies
largely on mental smartness and extreme urge for
attaining your desired one.
From our common experience, we can say that a
handsome guy can attract a young girl through his
bright complexion, stylish hair, sharp eyes,
muscular structure and several other features.
Adding to all these, they do possess extra
qualifications like smartness at the hour of
requirement, ability to crack jokes at certain
points to ward off monotony of life, sensuousness
and most importantly, faithfulness in the core of
hearts.
To evaluate whether a nice guy can end up making
friendship or having sex, we need to segregate boys
into two compartments: the first one who can
successfully hook up and other one who can't. It
would be wrong if we come into the conclusion right
now that a nice guy can always finish at last, it is
definitely not true; on the other hand, if we
mention that nice guy can not succeed at all, we are
creating a misconception about the so called 'nice
guys'. So, to make it simple, there is no fixed
rule, which can be applied to determine whether a
nice guy comes at the end of the race. Still, we
have an option wide open to discuss about the
features that finishes at last.
There is no denying the fact that individual opinion
cannot be taken granted as general; but to make a
general opinion, fragmented individualized opinion
have to be considered as a whole. Consider a
blue-eyed boy with silky and spiky hair; when he
opens his clothes, a stout feature comes out that
reflects sinewy biceps and bony chest. Soothing
smile added with mesmerizing stare compels every
second person to fall in love…if these features are
tinged with aesthetic dressing combination, they
would become simply the heartthrob of any sexy girl.
Style of expressing something, intellectuality and
other mannerisms also earn attention of the loved
ones. Style of walking, way of communication and
last but not the least, his eagerness to make
friendship with opposite sex is the criteria for
coming up with flying colors in the game of dating.
Think of a boy with all the abovementioned
features…do you think he would be able to capture
attention of a girl at the first appearance?
Probably YES and probably No!!! It may seem
ridiculous, but is true to the deepest sense of the
term. Actually, the power of catching attention of
any new person does not only depend on the outward
features, but also on the innate power. It is seen
quite often that a man with ordinary looks can mould
mind of a young girl through his power of
communication, affability, openness and more. It is
not that nice but shy guys will always come at the
last in the race. But, it is happening to most of
the nice guys…they meet women, but their extrovert
friends take the cake away while they remain
standing at the corner on their own, wondering ‘why
the girls don’t look at me when they pass by?’ It is
quite simple really…men are generally physically
stronger than women and usually performs the job of
earning money for the rest of the family. A smart
and ebullient guy ooze confidence like no nice shy
guy does and that attract the women to go for making
love with them. Women get attracted to opposite sex
due to ‘cockyness’ and dominating nature and then
breaks up for the same reason and then repeats this
cycle with another man. The thing is that women
rarely comes out of their cocoon and advances for
making love; but men have to take the initiative
just like the matchstick is essential for creating
great fire. This is why nice shy guy come last in
the event of making love.
So, nice-guys will have to come forward leaving
behind the tears of self-loathing and getting over
their shyness. They are required to do something on
their own. Prepare yourself for the right time and
place, flash killing glances when any young girl
stares at you and do not hesitate to interact with
her. Keep your relationship growing through proper
communication, know her likes and dislikes, and
propose to carry your association for long. You can
get two answers in turn – she might have fallen in
love or may show unwillingness to continue. If she
agrees with your proposal, carry on making love and
enjoy the rest of your life; but if she denies your
proposal, try your luck for another girl. Don’t be
disheartened at all!
It will definitely work for you by getting turned
down once in a while. Your key phrase should be like
this…"getting hurt is much better than regretting
for not taking any action on my own."
