Are
you happy with your lovelife or would you like to
see it improved?
No matter who you are, there are times when "the
bedroom" is not the loving and fun room it
should be. There are of course numerous reasons
why this may happen but there are some simple
things you can do to help you make things
better.
Your bedroom acts as a magnet both literally and
metaphorically for your relationships. It is
also where you sleep during the night renewing
your energy levels in preparation for what the
world has to offer to you the next day.
It is most likely where your romantic life is
centered - unless of course you like to
experiment - perhaps you're a free spirit who
likes to commune with the outdoors ;-)
Your bedroom is your and your homes sanctuary.
The positioning and layout within it plays a
massive role not only on your passion and
romance chances but also your health, wealth and
other relationships in general.
Careful attention should indeed be paid on this
highly important room. When you get it right,
positive energy (called "chi" by the Chinese and
"ki" by the Japenese) will flow easily through
your home.
Get it wrong...
All things in life are connected at the minute
quantum level and the following information will
help guide you so you and your relationships
flourish:
1. Make sure your bedroom "feels" inviting
It must fulfill the role of a place of safety for
you. When you look at the state of your bedroom now
- what does it say to and about you? Does it say
"I'm at home with myself" or is it a big jumble and
in disarray? Is it just functional - it's purpose
only for sleeping in your eyes, if so - if you want
your love life to change, then this has got to
change too.
2. Look around at all of the items
Furniture/trinkets etc... in your bedroom. Do you
have good/loving memories and feelings for these
items? Or are there items which hold bad memories?
If there are - get rid of them, they hold a residual
energy and act as a constant reminder to your
non-conscious mind. How about photos? Are there any
old flames "hanging around" - again, chuck them out
- you do want to move on to a new relationship -
don't you?
3. Your bed should be the focal point of the room
This is where both "action" and "inaction" takes
place, where you are both energized and renewed.
Does your bedroom have a "personality problem"? Is
it in effect multitasking? Do you have a home office
or perhaps a treadmill beside you? Again, these
items should not be here. You want to focus on your
relationships rather than your body or mind in this
room - move them out. If this is not possible due to
space constraints, you will need to use a screen to
keep them "at bay".
4. The ever present TV.
Yes it can be cosy to curl up in bed and watch a
great movie but a TV sends out a stream of
positive ions (rather than positive chi) - this
device is "yang" in nature and will ensure your
body does not get the rest it requires. It also
represents a 3rd party in the room - not
particularly conducive to a stable and healthy
monogomous relationship... Once again - the TV
has got to go.
5. Make sure your bed is as far away from the door to your room as you
can.
If you are unable to see the door, you will feel ill
at ease at a subconscious level - this is because
you will sense you cannot see if an intruder will
enter your room (heaven forbid!). This unease will
of course impact how you rest at night.
6. Choose a bed which has a solid and sturdy headboard.
In Form School Feng Shui, the headboard
represents a supportive mountain to your back.
7. Your bed holds residual energy from those who have come and gone
before.
In an ideal world, if you have had a partner and
wish to attract a new one, you should purchase a
new bed. This gives you and your new
relationship an optimal chance to flourish.
Regardless, you should invest in the best bed
you can as if you sleep 8 hours per day, this
means you will spend 1/3 of your entire life in
it!
