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Tips for Telling if You Need to Bring Up Something That's Bothering You With
Your Man or Husband
1) It's been on your mind for ages - you've tried to drop subtle hints, but
to no avail.
2) You feel it's something important to you, but he doesn't realise how much
it's bothering you.
3) What's troubling you is something he is capable of changing - like being
late, or referring to his ex-girlfriend frequently - not a deeply rooted
character trait, which you will never get him to change.
4) Be wary of trying to get between him and his mates - don't ask him to cancel
his regular week night poker rendezvous with the boys, for example. He will
think you are trying to take away his freedom, and react very badly.
5) Take it over with your girlfriends first to make sure that you are making a
reasonable demand: you need to make these requests of him sparingly. You
wouldn't like it if he were always on at you about little things you do. Give
him the same tolerance you want him to give you.
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