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All About Body Language
Yes, your body language plays a very important role in impressing your date.
So while you're trying to get your partner's attention, here are a few things
that you must do and must not do-all, so that you can breeze into a relationship
for keeps...
MUST DO...
1) Hold yourself upright. Think of how you'd hold yourself if you were the most
confident person in the world.
2) Move slowly. Gesture slowly. Speak slowly. Blink slowly. This communicates
comfort and confidence.
3) Pause often. Only respond if you choose to. Remember: You don't need to react
or respond to anything that you don't want to. Women often try to push you off
balance. Don't fall for it. Stay cool, and pause if you need to in order to keep
your composure.
MUST NOT DO...
1) Talking too fast or too much. This communicates that you're nervous and
sketchy, unless you're telling a really intresting story, that is...
2) Making nervous gestures, laughs, tics, etc. At times many guys laugh
nervously after just about everything they say. This is the death of attraction.
It instantly communicates insecurity.
3) Breaking eye contact. At fIrst, you need to maintain eye contact until she
breaks it. This establishes at an unconscious level that you're not afraid.
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